The Best of the first 100…
May 10, 2008 — underthebootI have posted here a hundred times since I started this blog in August. And I realize, wow, it must be hard for a new person starting to read this to get a handle on all of the best posts, and to filter out the worst, most navel-gazey ones. And I say that because, you know, I may or may not have drunkenly given one of my good friends the address to the site last night when we talked about S&M. Maybe. After swearing her to secrecy. Because I won’t even be living down here anymore. And because I figure if I’m going to try to get into a public scene up north, I need to start by being honest with at least somebody about this.
So, in belated honor of my first hundred posts, and in an effort to make our history with BDSM a little less of a grind to get through, I present to you the five best posts of the first one hundred. If you’re new and want to know what I think are the five most important posts to read — or you’re that friend I gave this blog address to and don’t want to have to slog through 114 posts.
45 Days In
The first post. A good intro.
Zero to Sixty
A history of how we got from vanilla couple to D/s relationship, and it leads directly into 45 days, above.
The Blood Is The Life/
My wife and I experiment with bloodplay and knives for the first time. My favorite post because it’s probably one of my favorite sex experiences, ever.
Thank You, Ma’am
I spend a lot of time on this blog trying to understand why I went from a guy who’s sexually submissive to…well, a giant slut for pain, and this post — one of the first — comes darn close to sketching out the progression.
The Nicest Humiliation Ever
Or, how I stopped worry and learned to love my penis, thanks to my wife and a particularly intense D/S scene.
Also, these posts are all over the place, timewise, which I think is good because you can start hopping around after using them as markers in our growth.
For the record, WordPress says our top five posts are:
How to Push Your Husband Into Switching
Erotica-Porn-and-Femdom
Variations On a Theme: It’s About Her
The Sound of Her Voice
I Want to Disappear
I promise to post something with more substance tomorrow. Really.