A Footnote, about a Blogroll

In addition to embarrassingly purging something from my system that still fucks with my head after twenty years, I wanted to say that I’ve updated my blogroll. I have, like, thirty blogs I read, and I think I’ve listed all of the ones that get updated regularly. If I forgot yours feel free to let me know.

As an adjunct to that, does it make a difference that I don’t have my email addie up for folks? Would anybody actually email? I just realized my only point of contact really is the comments section here, or the odd occasion I check in at Fetish Lore.

Why Male Dominance is Scary…

I am anonymous. Anonymity gives me the freedom to be honest. And so now I’m going to tell you why my wife’s desire to allow me to dominate and have control scares the ever-living hell out of me. Some of you will probably think I’m a dick for this, and I don’t blame you — I’ve spent years running over this in my head, and I think I’m a dick.