The Real Us
February 11, 2008 — underthebootAre we into BDSM because it lets us reveal our real personalities, or are we into BDSM because it lets us pretend to be different people than we really are?
I suspect the question is badly framed — I think personalities are more than simple black-and-white, this-or-that phenomena. But I’ve been thinking about this question as I struggle with my own identity. Read the rest of this entry »
