The Real Us

Are we into BDSM because it lets us reveal our real personalities, or are we into BDSM because it lets us pretend to be different people than we really are?

I suspect the question is badly framed — I think personalities are more than simple black-and-white, this-or-that phenomena. But I’ve been thinking about this question as I struggle with my own identity. Read the rest of this entry »

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