Zero to Sixty.

Devastating Yet Inconsequential has a blog up discussing the larger issues of “What is Vanilla?,” which is really interesting, as always. I love reading about her and her boyfriend, because she and Eileen (and their partners) have some of the more approachable femdom blogs out there. (There are a ton more I read regularly, like Tom or Bitchy Jones, but I try to steer my wife clear of Tom’s, since those are ideas I don’t want her to get.)

But I was more interested in a statement she made:

Undertheboot has an interesting post asking “What is vanilla sex?” (The post is also hot. I’m enjoying his blog more and more now that I think he’s for real.*)

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(*It’s rude, I know, but at first I had a hard time taking his blog seriously, as hot as it was. Nobody tells their vanilla spouse they’d like to try bdsm and then, the next week or so, is up to their eyeballs in gags, whips, piss, etc. Do they?)

And the thing of it is, I’ve been browsing more and more blogs these days, and in the last couple weeks, I ran across a couple maledom blogs that were — I dunno, too good to be true, was the feeling I got. And, in all fairness, when I think about it after reading Dev’s post, I realized that those blogs did parallel my own experiences — guy gets wife into BDSM, wife goes apeshit hot for it, each post documents another milestone in their relationship, although usually the guy is the dominant and the woman has finally learned about her inner slut and how she aches for cock and humiliation.

And when I read Dev’s post, and started rummaging through my old posts…

Pushing Boundaries

I’ve given my wife control over my orgasms again.

Amongst other things. She’s set some other rules for me to follow while I’m gone…