Scary Surprises.

I have no idea what awaits me this weekend.

Normally, I worry about “topping from the bottom,” if I understand the concept right. My wife’s complained — “It’s not very submissive if you tell me what you want and then I do it.” She worries about the power-exchange getting all mixed up. Given that it’s our first few months into this, I feel like communication is essential — “I’d love it if we could get the strap-on out early, because you get into dominant-mode extra well with it.” “I’d love a golden shower.” You know, I feel like I’m being a good sub by laying my wants on the table….