But First, A Revelation. Or, “Playing Dentist.”

I interrupt my normally scheduled reports of last week’s use of ballgags and floggers and crops to write about a revelation I had today.

My assumption has been that I’ve been a submissive for years and years, buried it, and only after coming out to my wife did I — did we — realize that I was a masochist. We started with pain play after we got into domination and submission, and while my wife liked to smack my ass once in a while and squeeze my nipples, I dunno that I ever really was into pain, or tied that into my submission, until after we got started playing Mistress and slave…